Reflecting on the Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr.’s message of love, peace, and hope in his “I Have A Dream” speech, I’ve realized that we need these reflected in our lives every single day. I’m not going to lie. This week has been very…
no commentIt’s a brand new year and you know what that means! That means it’s time to recharge our sexual selves so that we can manifest all the things we want in the world. Feeding our sexual energy is vital to our self-improvement and well-being, so…
2 commentsRecently, I’ve had a few friends come up to me and ask about their sexual relationships with their partners. They’ve all been in long-term relationships who have been suffering at the hands of time and the lack of sexual motivation. The fact is, sometimes when…
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I know what you’re thinking… You’re thinking, “Marla! What has gotten into you? You? Celibate? On purpose?” And the answer is “Yes.” “But you teach about how to have better sex and better orgasms. Why would you even promote celibacy in your lustful world?” And…
no commentRecently, I had a friend who was telling me about her recent sexual experience. My friend who is in (in my opinion) pretty good sexual shape, has had a multitude of partners who have been giving her some good exercise. However, when she started engaging…
no comment“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” – Children’s Taunt When it comes to sexual identities, there are so many to name and so many to choose from. Depending on your evolution of self, you can figure out…
no commentA lot of my blogs talk about various dynamics of sex, but I haven’t written about what we can actually do during sex for a long time. I don’t talk about my sex life much, but I had a few wonderful sexual experiences recently that…
no commentAs a sexologist and sex educator, sometimes I think we engage in shortcuts – especially when it comes to the LGBT community. This “alphabet” community actually includes a ton of letters. In fact, the more comprehensive list would look more like this: LGBTQIAQA (or any…
no commentAt a meeting this week, I was fascinated by the concept of Secondary Traumatic Stress. Secondary Traumatic Stress is when you become impacted by someone else’s trauma. This particularly tugged at my heart because I work with a lot of clients who have been impacted…
no commentDo you have a fear that you need to address in your sexual life? Is there something that you haven’t said to a lover or partner and waiting for the right time to bring it up, but that time never comes? Whether you realize it…
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