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What Are Your Life (& Sexual Values)?

03.06.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Life values are important. Wait, let me say that again.  LIFE VALUES ARE IMPORTANT. When it comes to pursuing a serious relationship with someone, you need to have the same values.  I tell this all the time to my clients and for some reason, it…

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After Meeting Someone Online – Part II

02.27.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

So now you’re ready to meet in person after you’ve been exchanging messages and you’re excited to meet your new potential boo.  You have all the hormones running through your system and the new relationship energy is just flowing through you, ready to be released…

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After Meeting Someone Online – Part I

02.21.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I was recently listening to a TEDx talk (like I do a lot), and there was a speaker speaking about the psychology of seduction.  One thing that particularly piqued my interest was the fact that he said that a lot of the seduction and courtship…

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Love Is An Action

02.13.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

A lot of us go around in this world thinking about how we love the folks that surround us and support us.  We especially think about love and how it pertains to our relationships, whether they are platonic or romantic.  Some of us even think…

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Fantasies vs. Realities

02.06.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Sexual liberation comes in all forms, but there’s one thing that we can’t deny – the fantasies that we have in our head don’t always translate well IRL (“in real life” for my non-social media/texty folks).  Sometimes we think of the most amazing, fun, and…

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The Biggest Lesson I Learned in 2018

01.02.2019 in Sex Arsenal Blog

As long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality (which is about 18 years now), there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again: “Relationships are work.” And throughout my life, I really found this to be the case.  Every…

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It Is What It Is…

10.10.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

This past weekend, I went on a working retreat with the Sexual Liberation Collective.  We were gathered in the Bay Area to discuss our work, our finances, and future plans.  I was particularly frustrated with one of the elements that we were moving slowly on,…

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