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7 Things You Need For Great Sex

01.09.2017 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Today, on the How We Talk About Sex podcast, Eric asked me a really great question and I thought it would be the perfect blog to write.  He asked me, “What constitutes great sex?” I really loved this question because it helped me realize a…

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Do You Pay Your Sex Bill?

20.07.2017 in Sex Arsenal Blog

You’re probably thinking, “what the hell are you talking about, woman?” I’m talking about investing in your sex life.  What are you doing today to invest in your sex life? Some folks go to the sex shop to buy new sex toys that they could…

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Are You Managing Your Orgasms?

23.06.2017 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Yesterday, I was listening to this great TED Talk about managing your time, or “procrastinating on purpose.”  I’m always so busy and I really needed to get some coaching about time management, so I figured I should listen to this while doing my ab and…

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Your 2017 New Year Sexual Resolutions

07.01.2017 in Sex Arsenal Blog

It’s a brand new year and you know what that means!  That means it’s time to recharge our sexual selves so that we can manifest all the things we want in the world.  Feeding our sexual energy is vital to our self-improvement and well-being, so…

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How to Be Sexy & (Voluntarily) Celibate

04.06.2015 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I know what you’re thinking… You’re thinking, “Marla!  What has gotten into you?  You?  Celibate?  On purpose?” And the answer is “Yes.” “But you teach about how to have better sex and better orgasms.  Why would you even promote celibacy in your lustful world?” And…

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Reclaim Your Sexual Identity!

29.04.2015 in Sex Arsenal Blog

“Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” – Children’s Taunt   When it comes to sexual identities, there are so many to name and so many to choose from.  Depending on your evolution of self, you can figure out…

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