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The Power of Pet Names

20.11.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I never really thought about this before, but recently, I started thinking about all the nicknames that I’ve been given over time.  From Marls to Marley to Marly Marl to Mar – all these names are always unique to the individuals who have given them…

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Being Sexually Thankful…

13.11.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Is it me or do these Christmas decorations start earlier and earlier every year!?  The day after Halloween, Christmas decorations went right on up and I was thinking, “What happened to Thanksgiving?  Did it pass already?  Where was I when this happened?”  Lo and behold,…

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DNA Might Be TMI

28.10.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I have a confession.  I absolutely love The Maury Show.  Even their hashtag “#youknowyouwatchmaury” cracks me up.  All the paternity tests and the drama where people are falling on the floor or in shock because of someone else’s secret is like talk show gold.  My…

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Do You Have Sexual Stigma?

23.10.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

After the addiction discussion, I got an email from a woman who told me that there wasn’t such thing as sex addiction.  But as we exchanged emails, I realized that she was battling with sexual stigma – not addiction – which is why she attributed…

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Open Up!

15.10.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I bet you were thinking that I was going to talk about polyamory, but I’m not.  I’m actually going to tell you about intimacy.  It’s been interesting over these past 2 months because I’ve been having more and more clients who are having issues opening…

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Are You A Sex Addict?

09.10.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

Like with any addiction, sex addiction can be detrimental to your health.  Understanding sex addiction should be a priority if you feel like you’re having sex “too much.”  If you are missing appointments, prioritizing sex over other important events and it feels like it’s taking…

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What is Sexual Intelligence?

20.09.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

With all the various types of intelligences out there in the world, there is one that I’m particularly keen to and that is sexual intelligence.  Although I never framed it as sexual intelligence, essentially the keys to having a healthy sexuality lie in education, exploration…

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Too Busy For Sex?

25.08.2014 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I read an article this past week about a 100-year-old sex therapist who is still practicing.  She’s practiced so long that she’s seen the changes from the “frantic” sexual revolution to the current information age where people are constantly busy in the rat race.  So…

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