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3 Strikes & You’re Out?

27.06.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

This past weekend, I had a full workshop about Queering Your Sex Skills at the Southern Fried Queer Pride festival and it was absolutely great!  I had a cute, young couple, one woman and one man who were in a monogamous relationship who had tried…

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The Choices You Make For Your Sex Life

05.06.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

We make choices every single day.  We make choices about our health habits, our work life, our family life, our social fabric, and in our sexual lives. I was inspired by this article that talked about how this husband made a spreadsheet about all the…

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3 May Masturbation Tips!

29.05.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

For those of you who have been in the loop, you know that May is Masturbation month!  Although we are on the tail end of it, there’s still some days that you can come and take advantage of some helpful masturbation tips that can rock…

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3 Amazing Period Sex Hacks!

27.03.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I don’t know about you, but I’m always trying to find a shortcut to some things and one of those, of course, is definitely around sex.  When I’m teaching my classes, I always try to give away a few of my sex hacks and I…

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Sex According to the Basic Emotions

06.03.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I don’t know if you’re a fan of the Black Mirror series (on Netflix), but if you aren’t, you should be!  The series is absolutely fantastic and reads a lot of social commentary about what the future might hold for us as human beings.  Most…

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Simple Sex Club Etiquette

23.02.2018 in Sex Arsenal Blog

I’ve been to many, many, sex clubs and they all have their own little unique quirks.  Every single one of them are fun in their own way.  Some of have dungeons, some have private and group sex rooms, and some have pools, hot tubs, and…

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