Sexual liberation comes in all forms, but there’s one thing that we can’t deny – the fantasies that we have in our head don’t always translate well IRL (“in real life” for my non-social media/texty folks). Sometimes we think of the most amazing, fun, and…
no commentEver since my Netflix debut on Trigger Warning with Killer Mike, I’ve been getting messages from people who want to do the work that I do. The fact is, I created the work that I do because of the formal and informal education that I’ve…
no commentAs long as I’ve been studying sex, relationships, and sexuality (which is about 18 years now), there was something that was ingrained in my head over and over again: “Relationships are work.” And throughout my life, I really found this to be the case. Every…
no commentFor those of you who read my blog last week and were like, “but what about me? I’m single!” I got you. We know the holidays get stressful for single folks, too, especially if you’re a gift-giver and you’re trying not to break your wallet…
no commentWe all know that it gets real stressful during the holidays (if you celebrate them, of course). There’s the management of money to make sure that you have enough to buy gifts, food, and decorations, along with making sure that your house is perfect and…
no commentThis past weekend, I went on a working retreat with the Sexual Liberation Collective. We were gathered in the Bay Area to discuss our work, our finances, and future plans. I was particularly frustrated with one of the elements that we were moving slowly on,…
no commentLast week, when Jet Setting Jasmine and I were talking about Religious Trauma in our Guilty Pleasures Support Group, as it pertains to shame and guilt around certain sexual behaviors and identities, Jasmine talked about navigating your sexual appetite and what that looks like. In…
no commentHave you ever been in a situation where you were surprised by something someone said or something someone did? How did it make you feel? In my line of work, I’m always surprised by something someone said or by something someone did; whether it’s a…
no commentI just finished listening to a new book on willpower (I need a whole lot of it right now) as I’m adjusting my schedule to accommodate my exercise and dietary needs and there was one concept that I thought was particularly interesting. The concept had…
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A lot of my students know that one of my guilty pleasures is watching Dr. Phil. Most of my friends roll their eyes at me whenever I mention him, but there’s nothing like watching these people sort out their issues with that big guy. As…
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