Recently, I received an email from an aging man who was a virgin (yes, a real 50-year-old virgin) and he expressed to me that although he felt attraction for all types of people, the thought of having sex didn’t pique his interest. It seemed like…
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As an HIV educator, tester and researcher, there are always new facts that come out about HIV that some people don’t know about. Most people, especially those under 30, have learned the basics on how HIV works and how it passes from person to person….
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Reflecting on the conference that I was at last weekend, the Whose Beloved Community? Conference, that focused on Black and LGBTQIA civil rights, I realized that too many of us have different ideas on what it means to have a sex-positive sexuality. For those folks who haven’t done…
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Currently, I’m reading a book about sex research and what scientists have found in recent studies. I have to say, it’s really advantageous to be in school right now and have access to the most current research studies regarding sexuality. Although this book was published…
no commentSince I’ve made it very clear for everyone that the vulva is very important because of all its wonderful and magical parts, I figured that it’s the penis’ turn to get some action on this blog. They’ve waited long enough.There are so many different parts…
no commentAlthough we talk a lot about the vulva, I’ve noticed when I talk to women and men, they often don’t even know all the parts of the vulva, even when it’s their own! Not only is it my job to educate and empower individuals with…
no commentFor some of you, the wind just has to blow and you are automatically excited and ready to have sex. For the rest of you, it might not come as easy. Maybe you’re having a “low-desire” episode in your life or maybe that new relationship…
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When is the last time you tried to do a new sexual move to really turn your partner on? How invested are you into trying something new and different? Sometimes, we all get a little stuck in doing the same things in bed over and over…
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As a bartender for the last 9 years and studying sexuality for the last 14 years, I’ve learned so much between the correlation of alcohol and your sex life. When navigated carefully, you can have a great time; but navigated poorly, it can ultimately be…
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If you are a lover of the vagina and vulva (I’m almost certain you are!), you may have come across a time or two when you were thinking about how to make her or how you can squirt/ejaculate. A lot of people tell me that…
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