If you are a lover of the vagina and vulva (I’m almost certain you are!), you may have come across a time or two when you were thinking about how to make her or how you can squirt/ejaculate. A lot of people tell me that they have come across a woman or two who have done it, but nothing that has ever been consistent. Sometimes, it’s not wanted and most of the time, it’s well-appreciated. Squirting and/or getting someone to squirt can be an enjoyable feeling. Squirting can also spark shock, fear, and/or anxiety in some folks; especially if they don’t know what’s going on! Remember, it goes without saying, relaxation and lubrication are a must (and protection if needed or status unknown). Find the G-Spot by starting 1-2 inches in and one inch up. Go towards the sides of the vaginal wall and locate the tissue because it’s different in every person.
Velvet Lips Titbits are little short morsels of information that come to you at just the right time. They are lovely little lessons for the week (and for life) that help you navigate your sexuality with super easy pieces of information to keep in mind. Listen for details and pull out the core issues that will help you in your everyday life.