Velvet Lips | Non-Touching Workshops
Sex workshops for private facilitation or groups.
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Non-Touching Workshops

Although we specialize in touching workshops, we have a ton of workshops that don’t involve touching whatsoever, but are still really fun!  Some of these are lecture-style and some of these you actually will verbally practice.  We’re going straight to the good stuff as we divulge what’s on our personal agendas and seek knowledge on ways that we can strengthen our sexual skills. Our topics are designed to be thought-provoking and sexually-inspiring!

These workshops are available for private facilitation and groups.

Seduce Your Lover!

Known as the Seduction Learning Approach©, this approach combines academic learning techniques with somatic sexual techniques to teach people how to communicate in effective ways using their erotic intention. We will combine the Seduction Learning Approach© and our personal Love Languages to navigate our prioritized relationships. This highly interactive workshop will teach you how to know if someone’s interested in you, how you can be a better communicator in everyday life and ultimately, how you can get what you want when you want it through the recognition of your own sexual power.

Initiate Sex!

Have you ever felt so attracted to someone that you just wanted to jump their bones? Are you in a LTR and for some reason your confidence in approaching your partner for sex seems scary? The workshop in this series is to help you how you see your power and how you can you use that power to initiate what you want, especially when it comes to your sexual desires. Find practical and surefire tactics to please your partner and learn how to dig deep, ignite your spark and propel your sexual fire!

Be A Cunning Linguist & The Art of Pussy Pleasing

And by the way your workshop was phenomenal. Great energy, fantastic facilitation of the group and the content was brilliant. Thank you again for the class. I learned so much. If there is any way to attend your con this year, I will.

-SP (Toronto, ON)

Do you think you know all the tricks of the trade when it comes to pussy pleasing? Are you someone who just wants to learn some fancy new techniques? Or are you just orally challenged? Any way you look at it, there’s always something to learn when it comes to pleasing the vulva. Whether it’s with your long-term partner or brief lover or somebody in-between, you can use these step-by-step techniques to earn your lover’s admirability.

Be A Head Master & The Art of Dick Teasing

Do you think you know all the tricks of the trade when it comes to dick teasing? Are you someone who just wants to learn some fancy new techniques? Or are you just orally challenged? Any way you look at it, there’s always something to learn when it comes to teasing the dick. Whether it’s with your long-term partner or brief lover or somebody in-between, you can use these step-by-step techniques to earn your lover’s admirability.

Squash It!: Navigating Arguments Effectively

We learned so much about communication in the workshop that we came back for individual coaching sessions.  They’ve helped our relationship so much and we’re so much happier because we know how to communicate with each other.
-NT (Atlanta, GA)

Do you and your partner(s) turn little arguments into big arguments?  Are you tired of going through the same argument loops over and over and over again?  Are you feeling misunderstood and that has distanced you in your relationship?  Is your sexual life suffering because of these senseless arguments?  Whatever your situation is, we will help you get through it by taking the time to break down your issues and coming up with a win-win situation that will enhance your relationship.  *couples or more only*

Art of Dirty Talk

I learned so much about dirty talk!  Not only do I know the tone, but your techniques helped me to build my confidence!  And the dirty talk phrases you gave out were great!
-SS, (Atlanta, GA)

Are you a little shy when it comes to expressing yourself in the bedroom? Or maybe you’re good in bed, but you want to bring your sexual life to new level? Whatever it is, this workshop will help you to speak up in bed, as well as get you and your partner to a more sexually arousing state. Practicing words, power, intonation and intention, we will help you to magnify your sexual potential. We will use our creative imaginations to guide us in imagery that enhances our sexual energy and also learn ways to stimulate our hormones to achieve our sexual goals. Get ready to experience just how dirty you can get!

Critiquing Your Lover

In this amazing workshop, we will be giving you the tools necessary to critique your partner without hurting their feelings. With the appropriation of grace and the somatic tools necessary to boost your partner’s ego, we will guide you in the right direction to facilitate the perfect sexual relationship. We will use role-playing, repetition and dirty talk to gracefully arouse your partner all while qualifying them as ideal sexual partners. Get ready to spark a fire and light a fire in your lover! *Voted as an Editor’s Pick in the Atlanta Journal Constitution!*

Building Your Sexual Confidence
Marla is amazing! She really knows how to set the atmosphere for a constructive, fluid and informative dialogue. I walked away from her workshop with new knowledge, a better understanding and greater confidence when it came to the topic of sex.
-JW, Spelman College (Atlanta, GA)

Do you feel like you are stuck in a rut? Have you had sexual issues with your past partners or current and potential partners? Are you open to learning new sexual ways of being? Whether you are in a relationship or not, we will teach you various techniques to improve your confidence skills and the way that you move through the world.

Giving & Receiving Anal for Champs

Thanks to Anal for Champs. I did it like a champ.

-AS (Atlanta, GA)​

We’ve all heard that the more lube you have, the better anal sex will be. While this may be true, we are going to go deeper (so to speak!) on how you can have pleasurable anal sex. We will guide you step-by-step on how to navigate the mental and sexual barriers that might have prevented you in the past from enjoying anal sex and how you can warm your body up to receiving another way of having an orgasm.

Bridging the Divide between Sex and Spirituality

Have you had a hard time mingling your sexuality and your spirituality? Whether you have or have not, in this discussion we will talk about what separates our sexuality from our spirituality. We will assist in helping you to understand the various kinds of sacred sexuality, how your sexuality and spirituality play a particular role in your life, and how knowing the chakras can enable you to psychoanalyze your actions. Bring us your personal experiences regarding spirituality and sexuality and see how intertwining these two concepts can facilitate your sexual potential!

Fantasy & Fetishism

​Coming from a place of Revolutionary Love, we are going to discuss why and how we seek out people who are different from us, whether it’s based on a fantasy or something else. We are going to analyze why we are more attracted to and come to understand why we might fetishize someone else or something that is unusual. With a no judgment perspective, we are going to evaluate the positive and negative aspects of our own personal fetishes.

Getting to Your Roots of Desire

Do you know what pleases you and what doesn’t please you?  Are you interested in understanding where your desires might come from and how they can impact your future?  This workshop dives deep into your psyche and helps you to find all that affects every nook and cranny of your brain.  Go where you’ve never been before!

Connecting Our Mental & Sexual Health

Are there particular mental health issues that you and/or your partner(s) are facing and it’s affecting your sexuality or your sex life? If there is, or even if there isn’t and you would like to know how to navigate this for yourself or future relationships, this is the perfect opportunity to do so. We will address how having a positive mental health can help you express your “true” sexuality and how you can use your sexual agency to your advantage to boost your self-esteem.

Pursuing Unicorns, Threesomes, and More

Unicorns are becoming increasingly popular – not only because of their rarity, but because of their ability to feed off the love of a loving couple. Searching for a unicorn can be very exciting for some couples, but sometimes the search grows weary if you aren’t able to “seal the deal.” In this workshop, we will show you how to allure unicorns by using cautious flirting and sexual negotiations that aim to please both parties. Avoid being a unicorn hunter and become just the right glitter to attract your perfect unicorn.

Bound for Zami & Sappho
Whether you are new or not to being lesbian, bisexual and/or queer, this workshop is designed to help you foster your sexuality as you relate to your lovers. A lot of times, lesbian/bisexual/queer women are negatively stigmatized, so this is designed to help you overcome stigma and love like ​your desire is intended.
Being HIV Sex-Positive
Are you HIV+ or do you have a partner who is HIV+? Are you in a serodiscordant relationship and you’re looking for fun ways to improve your sex life? If you’re having trouble navigating this slick, sexual landscape, this workshop is for you! We’ll talk about PrEP, and which sexual adventures help you to be safe and pleasurable with each other.
Excel in Outercourse!
Does the sound of sex make you a bit squeamish or do you want to try something other than penetrative sex? Are you interested in having orgasms in different ways? If you do, then this is the workshop for you! Know what it’s like to exchange sexual energy without penetration and maximize all your tools of pleasure.

Workshops range from $85-$125 and last from 1 to 1.5 hours.